FOR BETTER OR FOR BEST Gary Smalley explains what motivates men and how women can use their natural attractive qualities to build a better marriage. He helps women to understand not only the way men think, but also how to move a man's heart. Using case histories and biblical illustrations, he solves with empathy, humor, and wisdom every practical and emotional problem a woman can face in her marriage.  Do you want your husband to: -- Meet your romantic needs? Comfort you when you’re down? Listen to what you have to say? Appreciate you?  Do more around the house?  Spend time with the kids?  Be your most intimate friend?